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Are Inheritance of Hope Legacy Retreats need-based? No, any family who has a parent with a life-threatening illness and children 18 and under is eligible. Why are your retreats all-expenses-paid? We understand that young families who have a parent with a life-threatening illness are not only enduring a physical, emotional, and spiritual battle, but also a financial one. Therefore, we want to remove all of the stress for at least three days so your family can focus on building your legacy within a community of support among others who understand your challenges. Who is eligible to attend an Inheritance of Hope Legacy Retreat? Families with children 18 and under who have a parent with a life-threatening illness. Eligible family members include the ill parent, spouse/caregiver, and children for whom the ill parent has legal custody. What if I am not of the Christian faith? We want to be clear that we see the challenges of navigating this challenging time through the lens of the Christian faith. However, we do not require (or ask) you to embrace any particular doctrine or background. In fact, you are free to opt-out of any activities with which you are uncomfortable. No matter what your beliefs, you will be served with respect, love, and compassion. I would love to have a getaway with my family, but I am concerned about giving up the freedom to plan my agenda. Our goal is to make plans so that you won't have to worry about them. With that said, if there is an activity that you would prefer not to participate in, you need to rest, or you need help with childcare, our staff is available to help you. In short, we'll make the plans, but you are ultimately in control of your agenda. We know you will want to have time to spend alone as a family, so we plan a lot of time just for you. What is the schedule at an Inheritance of Hope Legacy Retreat? Although the activities and itineraries vary slightly from one event to another, you can click here to view a sample itinerary. My children are in high school - is an Inheritance of Hope Retreat for them, too? Yes! Children at our retreats range from newborn to eighteen. In fact, some attendees are a little older and come with siblings who are under eighteen. No matter what their age, all of the children have a great time. What will you tell my children about my illness? Your children should know about your illness before they come. However, we will not dwell on the illness and certainly not presume an outcome. Our licensed children's counselor uses play therapy to work with children through games and fun activities, which help them to explore and process feelings they may have a hard time understanding. The children also really enjoy the chance to meet others their age who can understand them in a unique way. You will have an opportunity to meet individually with the children's counselor to discuss observations and specific concerns about your family during the retreat. What if I am not able to participate in every activity or ride every ride? Our outstanding volunteers are eager to help you, whether that means riding a twisting roller coaster or watching your children while you get some much-needed rest. What if I have unexpected medical appointments or am unable to travel on the retreat weekend? We understand that there is a great deal of uncertainty in the lives of young families who have a parent with a life-threatening illness. We encourage you to apply and we will contact you as the event approaches to confirm that you are still able to attend. I am concerned about taking someone else's spot. Don't be. We encourage you to apply because we want to serve you. |



